the LIST

you know...pple keep talking about the list... about the list of characteristics, of goodness you are looking out for your better half... some say the love map mirrors that of your parents, others talk about it all the time and follow it religiously...

i say bullshit (and shit, in my book is NOT a bad word. it is another word for crap or whatever that comes out of that arse hole)

you say these magic words in a roomful of guys and i swear everyone is gone in a min.
' all those married, in a relationship, serious or non, all those gays, bisexual, all those emotionally unavailable, clear out of the room' and i swear, there are all gone..

so you see, no list required.

i know what kind of qualities i am looking for in a man, i know what i need. adn you either end up with someone substandard and make do with what you have or you try the hell to change them into what you want. and neither works as you like ...

or so i exaggrate. but you know i am right